Presentations

Ready for something new for your event participants? Check out our one of a kind workshops!

Our classes and workshops are presented by Daniel Belum, who has been educating audiences at over 400 events since 2005! He is not only highly skilled, but also engaging, entertaining, and thought-provoking.

Making Connections

Improv for Kinky Introverts!

Note for event producer: depending on your attendee audience, “Improv for the Kinky & Neurospicy” is a great alternative title.

This is a low-pressure, high-enjoyment space where socially anxious, quiet, or neurodivergent kinksters can explore connection through laughter and presence. Using gentle improv exercises designed for introverts, we’ll practice staying in the moment, saying “yes, and,” and building comfort with playful uncertainty—skills that translate beautifully into both social and kink scenes.

You don’t need to be loud, funny, or experienced—just curious. Come as you are, leave with tools for confidence, co-creation, and connection!

New here? Guided Meet & Greet!

Note for event producer: this is more than just a gathering of people; we use a variety of tools to help people actually connect and end up having a better event overall and avoiding feeling like an outsider.

New to the scene? New to this space? Or just feeling a little shy? This guided meet & greet is designed to help you ease in, find your people, and ask your questions—without pressure. We’ll use light structure, playful prompts, and consent-centered connection exercises to break the ice without breaking your nervous system.

Whether you’re solo or partnered, kinky or kink-curious, introverted or a bit overwhelmed—come as you are. You’ll leave feeling more grounded, more connected, and more confident about taking your next steps.

Self Confidence is Sexy

You’ve taken the big step and became part of the polyamory, kink, alt, swinging, or power exchange community. Now, people are falling all over themselves to fulfil your desires and help you find your authentic self…right?

Join us for a class that focuses on how to develop and maintain appropriate confidence. Appropriate Confidence is the self assurance that isn’t hinged on one specific instance of success (or crushed because of one instance that things go bad). It is an internal knowing that you are in the right place, you are enough, you belong,  and that you won’t be swayed by others views of you…at least, not for long.

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BDSM For Anyone

Erotic to Extreme: Chemical Play 101

From mild sensations to pain that will make the biggest masochist say ‘never again!’, learn the fundamentals of Chemical play! Lots of hands on opportunities as you discover this underutilized play.

Breast Play For Nice and Naughty

Join us for a workshop on breast play! Bumping, bruising, pinching, touching and more! First an overview and safety, then we get ‘hands on’! This is an interactive workshop for those that want to get directly involved – bring your favorite toys, advise, experience, and breast to practice on (some demo bottoms may be in attendance or ‘byo boobs’)

Bite Me Softly (or Don’t) – A Hands-On Guide to Sensual and Primal Biting

Whether you’re a playful brat, a power-exchanging primal, or just bite-curious, this workshop explores how teeth can become tools of intimacy, dominance, and deep connection. We’ll cover techniques, anatomy, safety, psychology, and scene-building—from bratty nibbles to grounding power bites. Bring your teeth and a consenting friend for the hands on part!

Rough Body Play for EVERY body

Join us for a hands-on look at the basics of kicking, punching, biting, and more –  REGARDLESS of your body type, age, ability etc. – all rooted in safety, trust, and clear consent. Whether you’re brand new or have some experience, we’ll share practical tips and guidance to help you navigate the physical and emotional sides of rougher play with confidence and care.

Find (and negotiate) Pick Up Play for the Shy…and Everyone Else

Join us for a workshop on how to find and connect to people to scene with at an event. Then, once you find them, use these specific tips for safer pick up play negotiation. This class is great for new people to the scene as well as those that are shy, introverts, or just haven’t found the groove to find consistent play!

Introduction to BDSM

Everything you need to get started on your BDSM journey! From basic “how to’s” with many of the most common BDSM toys (such as floggers, paddles, and simple bondage) to topics such as ”setting up your scene” and the difference between BDSM and Ds. We will discuss not only the play itself, but also the very important aspects to take place before a “scene” (such as negotiation and safety) as well as after a scene (aftercare, sub drop, and keeping your toys clean). And see demonstration of many toys! You’ll get some ideas of what to expect – and what to avoid – as people get started in BDSM, either as a bedroom activity or as active participants in the lifestyle.