I feel like I’m not good enough

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I’ve had people say this to me…

“I feel like I’m not good enough”

Now, I could respond with the short answer of:
“You are good enough”.

But rarely does anyone say “Oh, thanks, I’ll just move along then”! So let dig in a bit.

“I feel like I’m not good enough”
Answer: “You’re thinking about this all wrong”.

See, I’ve worked with lots of people struggling with self-confidence. And you know what separates the ones who stay stuck… from the ones who break through?

They don’t try to control every single thought or outcome in their lives.

Instead, they learn how to roll with whatever challenges show up. They get comfortable being uncomfortable with uncertainty.

Granted, building confidence is not easy. Life throws curveballs. Big setbacks happen. Situations you’ve never faced before show up.

And maybe you’ve frozen in a moment and that your inner voice screamed “I’m not ready for this!”.

That just means your human.

It might help to realize that you are not as far away from deep self confidence as you think. Truly confident people…

  • Don’t have all the answers. They just take the next step.
  • They have learned to stop overthinking every decision.
  • No more researching “what if” scenarios for hours.
  • No more wondering if you’re capable enough.

You are capable enough. You just need to learn some tools.

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